LOTL's Bachelorette 2012

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We spent three months looking all across Australia for LOTL’s Bachelorette of the Year.

We tried to narrow it down to a top ten, but we had too many fabulous bachelorettes to go that small. We have a top fourteen contestants. Take a look at the finalists and vote on the page or via mobile. You have until February 25th, 2012 to decide on a winner. We’ll announce the winner at our Gala Event at The Bank Hotel. We hope you’ll join the party, which will feature entertainment by Lady L, spins by DJ Fiesty, and the announcement of who will win the crown and take home the trip for two to the Northern Territory.

Here are your finalists:

Lisa Blackmore, NSW

If you could rule the world what is the first thing you would change?

I’d give everyone equal rights, such as allowing same-sex couples to marry and to have the same rights as everybody else. I feel that this is the biggest issue we all face on a day-to-day basis. No discrimination in the world equals a world where we can all live in peace.

How would your friends describe you?

Well, my best friend Emily describes me as: “Amazing, caring, selfless, fiercely loyal, patient. One time when I hit a low point and wanted to give up on my studies, Lisa cancelled all her plans for the day and took me on an adventure to the art gallery and the botanical gardens where she had me forget all my troubles. She reminded me why I was there and showed me things weren’t as bad as they seemed. Lisa is the friend who would do anything for me and anyone else she cares about. She’s dedicated to whatever she sets her mind to, and is amazingly artistic. She’s creative and inspires me to do things I’d never thought I could do. And whoever she ends up with, should consider themselves one of the most blessed people in the world, as time spent with Lisa is time you appreciate forever.”

Would you do anything for love?

Yes, I would do anything that is conductive in a monogamous and healthy relationship. If I were Altus I would pull stars from the sky. If I were Poseidon I would dry up streams and use the water to grow flowers where ever she may be so she can always walk in beauty…but alas I am mortal, so short of the miraculous, the sky’s the limit.

You’re writing your own wedding vows – what would they say?

Past my mind, beyond my heart, I love you from my soul. And that’s the space where only you and I, together grow old.

What qualities do you think our BOY should embody?

They should defy the cliché. Lesbians are more than just short hair and butch clothing. Each female has her own sense of identity, and I think the BOY should represent that. They need to be honest, down to earth and yet still know how to have a good time and really make the most of life, even if life throws them a curveball. They know how to deal with it and know when they have to be strong and also know when it’s all right to be vulnerable.

Cat or dog?

Gosh, that’s a hard one. But it would have to be a cat, as I have one and well Willow…he is my little man.

Allison, 26, business development manager, NSW

If you could rule the world what is the first thing you would change?

I would organize the redistribution of global food production so that people aren’t dying of starvation in developing countries. Shame! “The richest 20% of people in the world consume nearly half the meat and fish in the world, but the poorest 20% consume just 5%.” (FAO, 2000) For more click here.

How would your friends describe you?

Outgoing, ambitious, amorous, fun, adventurous, and sometimes a little bossy!

Would you do anything for love?

I would make my girl my partner in all things, sharing the good times and bad, both equal halves of one whole. Anything she wants.. she gets! Including all my love and attention, always.

You’re writing your own wedding vows – what would they say?

Hmm, that’s a tough one… I think it would depend on the person I was marrying. I would want them to be specific to her, her needs and wants of the marriage and what marriage would mean to us as a couple. Not something I would want to presume at this point in my life.

What qualities do you think our BOY should embody?

The ability to be a great spokesperson/ representative of all the lesbians in Australia. (Including Femmes!) Namely be: outgoing, sexy, confident, friendly and smart. Able to get along with people from all walks of life and have integrity and morals.

Cat or dog?

Must love dogs!

Bath or shower?

Spa bath. A nice big one with bubbles and champagne, and preferably views of some tropical paradise…

Beach or Pool?

Pool. Resort. Enough said really.

Victoria, 22, Area Manager, NSW

If you could rule the world what is the first thing you would change?

LGBTI all around the world would have the same rights as heterosexual people!

How would your friends describe you?

Honest, loyal, ambitious, hardworking, reliable, caring, hot/trendy? You decide for yourself 🙂

Would you do anything for love?

I would do anything to make you mine. I would go to the ends of the earth for you, I would lock you down and call you mine, I would make you the priority in my life. I would make you my life.

You’re writing your own wedding vows – what would they say?

Let’s think of the future, and forget the past. You’re my first love and you’re my last, take the love that I bring then I’ll have everything, as long as I have you.

What qualities do you think our BOY should embody?

Passionate about gay rights, out and proud, spontaneous, adventurous, family orientated.

Cat or dog?

Dogs all the way; the uglier the dog the cuter!

Bath or shower?

Shower is more spacious 😉

Beach or Pool?

Beach. Sun, tan, fish & chips, beer, and gorgeous girls in bikinis!

Ishtar, NSW

If you could rule the world what is the first thing you would change?

Try and eliminate injustice.

How would your friends describe you?

Embarrassing, a liability, a handful, entertaining.

Would you do anything for love?

Yes. I believe love can change/define who you truly are.

You’re writing your own wedding vows – what would they say?

I’m a pain in the bum but we’ve come this far so I’ll fix what I can from here ’till death or annoyance come between us.

What qualities do you think our BOY should embody?

Just be genuine, have confidence and pride in themselves.

Sara, NSW

If you could rule the world what is the first thing you would change?

Well, if someone were to come up to me and announce my reigning over the whole world…certainly the first thing I would HAVE to change is…my underwear.

How would your friends describe you?

Hopefully with long extravagant sentences pertaining to my exuberant personality which harmonizes perfectly with my outrageous hair.

Would you do anything for love?

I’m sure I’d do a lot of things but anything doesn’t sound particularly smart. I’d hate to find myself jumping off a bridge for love.

You’re writing your own wedding vows – what would they say?

I can’t imagine being married unless Julia Stiles proposed…Julia Stiles, when I see you my heart runs for miles. The first time I saw you on the telly, I got butterflies in my belly. I was in bliss every time I thought of you as my Miss. Everything is fine, now that I’m yours and you mine.

What qualities do you think our BOY should embody?

For starters, I think they should definitely NOT be a boy. Red hair, glasses, dad joke plenty…oh wait that’s me! Ok, seriously, charisma, confidence and passion.

Cat or dog?

Oh, I don’t want to pick! Perhaps a hybrid of both.

Bath or shower?

The shower wastes less water.

Beach or Pool?

Beach! Fresh, cool, free and wild ‘NUF SAID

Kelly, 24, NSW

If you could rule the world what is the first thing you would change?

Equal rights! I would then make Australian flights cheaper!

How would your friends describe you?

As a serial Spooner and sushi addict, who often breaks things. Outrageous… and short!

Would you do anything for love?

Yes, but they would have to be as amazing as me!

You’re writing your own wedding vows – what would they say?

… I love you…’

What qualities do you think our BOY should embody?

Smart, fun, proud, and a little spice of spunk!

Cat or dog?

Dog! Without question!

Bath or shower?

Depends who’s running it… 😉

Beach or Pool?

Beach!

Mandy, 26, NSW

If you could rule the world what is the first thing you would change?

My position in the social order 😛

How would your friends describe you?

Incorrectly, lol.

Would you do anything for love?

Only if love would do anything for me!

You’re writing your own wedding vows – what would they say?

I vow to remember that even the most genuine promise may be honest in its intentions, but impossible to guarantee.

What qualities do you think our BOY should embody?

The ones I have to offer…

Cat or dog?

Dog.

Bath or shower?

Shower.

Beach or Pool?

Beach.

Tracey, 31, Disability Support Professional, NSW

If you could rule the world, what is the first thing you would change?

I would remove all legislative discrimination, hence restoring equality for all human beings. There should not be any segregation or disempowerment regardless of sexuality, religion, social class, financial status, health, or gender.

How would your friends describe you?

Those who know me well would describe me as an outgoing, fun and spontaneous person. I am effervescent with tenacity and enthusiasm for life that can be alluring. I love music on all different levels and am energetic and creative in all that I do. However, for those people whom I trust and who are close to my heart, they would also say that I am a relatively sensitive and vulnerable person with a tender heart just looking to belong as are all human beings.

Would you do anything for love?

No, I would not do anything for love. However, being ‘in love is a different story. I would do whatever it takes to be with that person and to build a future with that person. I believe that being ‘in love’ inspires my own sense of self and experiences of the world.

Wedding vows:

From the first time I looked into your eyes, I felt that the world around me disappeared. I watch you sleeping, I hear you breathing, I see your smile and I know I have found where I belong. Being with you is what I believe must be ‘ecstasy’ as you arouse my emotions, my heart, my mind and my body in every way. Your existence validates my own existence. It is because of you that I know I will reach the skies and it is because of you that I want to. I feel sheer and utter honour to be standing here before you and giving every part of me to you.

What qualities do you think our BOY should embody?

Strong convictions
Courageous, confident and proud of the woman she is
Insightful into her own sense of self
Respectful to all others that she associates with
Sensitive and empathic to the needs of others
Ability to relate to all walks of life
Fun-loving, enthusiastic and dynamic

Cat or Dog?

Cat.

Bath or shower?

Shower.

Sandie Bennett

If you could rule the world what is the first thing you would change?

Gay marriage would be legal worldwide.

How would your friends describe you?

Adventurous, reliable, loyal, positive, and kind.

Would you do anything for love?

“A wise lover values not so much the gift of a lover as the love of the giver.” Thomas a Kempis

You’re writing your own wedding vows – what would they say?

It 100% depends on who it is, the vows would be based around her and as I have not met her yet I cannot write them but I am looking forward to it in the future.

What qualities do you think our BOY should embody?

Strength, courage, love, respect, integrity, passion and belief in themselves

Beach or Pool?

I live on the coast and am a huge surfy chick, I am always at the beach either working or playing.

Jessica Wooton

If you could rule the world what is the first thing you would change?

Social inequality and metered parking.

How would your friends describe you?

Protective, friendly, impatient.

Would you do anything for love?

I like things to fall naturally into place.

You’re writing your own wedding vows – what would they say?

Thank you for sticking with me over this long long time.

What qualities do you think our BOY should embody?

Sociable, kind….and being a bit of a babe wouldn’t hurt.

Cat or dog?

Dog.

Beach or Pool?

Beach, even though my skin tone may show different.

Kirston Miles

If you could rule the world what is the first thing you would change?

Rules!! I would let people live how they want to live (without hurting anybody of course).

How would your friends describe you?

Honest, fun, up for anything.

Would you do anything for love?

Yes (within reason)..being in love is the most amazing feeling and I think nothing feels like a chore or that you have to do something when you are doing it for the one you love.

You’re writing your own wedding vows – what would they say?

I love you. You are my world, my rock, my all. You make me a better person and give me a reason to plan a future and live a long, wonderful, happy life.

What qualities do you think our BOY should embody?

Sexy, fun, happy.

Cat or dog?

DOG!!!!

Elli, 25, Restaurant Manager, NSW

How do my friends describe me?

Luckily my friends came to visit me at the cafe today so I got them to throw some thoughts my way: vivacious, friendly, saucy, successful, caring, a nanna (I tend to fall asleep early), great cook, awesome, spunky, bright, lots of fun.

What would you do for love?

I wouldn’t change who I am, but I would give them my broccoli and I love broccoli.

Wedding vows:

Today on our wedding day there are a few things darling I wish to say, luckily we both are happy and gay. So come on bitch don’t linger put that ring on my finger and lets go on our sweet little holiday, where I should have my way with you in the hay.

Dog or Cat? Loving the puss.

Beach or pool?

Beach. Rough, wet and wild.

Shower or Bath?

Long baths with the one I love.

What should our BOY embody?

She needs to be proud to be gay to start with, confident within herself and prepared to promote loudly and proudly same-sex relationships in a positive way to influence people’s perceptions. A fearless woman.

What would I change in the world?

I’d make it all a little more equal! In every country as well as one another, every person would have access to food, water, education, and a safe warm home. (The little things we can take for granted.) Close the gap between rich and poor. I want every human and animal to feel safe also.

Rashy, 39, wine sales, VIC

If you could rule the world what is the first thing you would change?

Discrimination and poverty.

How would your friends describe you?

Bubbly pocket rocket because of the positive energy I spread. Funny, loyal, generous, romantic, passionate, caring, affectionate, a doer, big kid with a large heart, sexy, seductive, hard-working and professional, always there for people, bit of a dag (haha), strong character with a soft heart who forgives easily. Peaceful bedroom eyes and oh la la legs 🙂 easy going.

Would you do anything for love?

I can do anything for true love. I can get her stars, the moon, love her to bits. Get her the biggest bunch of long stem red roses, Champagne, kiss her slowly, love deeply and forgive easily as we all do mistakes in life. I will be a very good lover, a friend and an awesome kisser 🙂

You’re writing your own wedding vows – what would they say?

I will look in her eyes with desire and passion and say, “I will have everlasting love and desire for you even when we are eighty years old. I will be your true friend, your lover, your trust. I love you heaps and be loyal to you in this life and beyond. I would want you to be mine in many lives to come and cherish all our beautiful memories together and I will make you laugh a lot. I won’t hurt you, desert you, or even break your trust and faith in me. I will be your best friend and let you cry from time to time on my strong shoulders. I will listen to you and be there for you when you need me the most.”

What qualities do you think our BOY should embody?

Sexy, strong character, beautiful inside and outside, not just a pretty face but brainy too, cheeky, help the community a lot, loyal and faithful. A professional. Someone who can spread the love and be kind. A totally awesome girlfriend and a really cool friend.

Cat or dog?

I absolutely love my little furball. He is my heartbeat and my little baby. He rocks my world.

Bath or shower?

Shower every day haha and candlelight bath with wine and bubbles on a special romantic occasion…with a beautiful company wink wink:)

Beach or Pool?

Beach all the way…unleash..waves…

Jess, 23, assistant manager, SA

Jess took a photo of her answers:

If you could rule the world what would be the first thing you would change?

The first thing I would change would be to legalize gay marriage to give equal rights to all of the gay community. I strongly believe that everyone is the same, no matter their sexual preference so we should all be treated equally.

How would your friends describe you?

Loyal, determined, always up for a good time, unconventional and the life of the party.

Would you do anything for love?

Yes. I am a very passionate person and when I’m in love there wouldn’t be anything I wouldn’t do for that one special girl.

You’re writing your own wedding vows – what would you say?

To my darling Miranda Kerr, you have made me the happiest girl alive when you divorced Orlando, I promise to love you and bubs forever, to infinity and beyond.