Since my doc still had concerns about vaginal sex, I had a great idea that anal sex was the way to go.

Since I like butt fucking I figured it was a way to get my rocks off and keep healing at the same time.
I put an ad up on Craigslist with a headline that went something like “Lesbo seeks anal fun w/other lesbo with strap on cock” and went on to further exclaim “Fortysomething tomboyish femme looking to get fucked where the sun doesn’t shine so to speak. Sister, if you can strap it on and fuck me good in the ass, I’m all yours. I’m a cute white gurl living alone in FlatBUSH. Write for more info.”

Yeah, it’s easy to be as bold as Oz behind the computer screen. And I had the usual parade of men, both ones who wanted to fuck me and those who wanted to get fucked by a dyke with a strap on. I just left the ad up, I mean it expires after seven days anyway and I didn’t really think I would receive any reasonable replies or offers but wanted to wait it out.

I checked my “personals” email infrequently, but one day I was bored and took a look. There was nestled in my inbox an email from a younger woman with the subject line “Anal Lesbians Unite.”  The message was almost a week old:

Hi, My goodness, that is quite a post.  I am very, very fond of a woman who can speak in a very succinct way about a very naughty topic, while still doing so coherently. Seriously, complete sentences while discussing butt fucking!  Hopefully, you haven’t been so inundated by creepy one-line replies and emails from guys that you’ve just decided to move on with your life.

I’m a 29 y/o single gay female living in Brooklyn as well.  Most people know me as smart, well-educated, independent, outgoing, kind, decent, basically your typical good-girl. I’m very feminine and girly with a little bit of my Midwestern lilt left over to boot, which only feeds into the good-girl thing.  However, underneath I have a very, very nasty/aggressive/queer/kinky/pervy side, sort of my inner slut, and one of the things that really floats my boat so to speak is anal sex…both giving and receiving.  I have a serious, serious anal fixation/obsession/addiction and it’s rare that I’ve met someone so forthright about, frankly, getting fucked in the butt.

From there we had a free-wheeling back and forth discussion about our mutual love of ass fucking (Thank you Tristan Taormino for bringing butt fucking out of the closet!) The twentysomething Brooklyn chick sent me some sexy pics and we talked about meeting. It never came to pass, she dropped offline as so many web-only correspondents do. But it was fun receiving her emails every day for about two weeks and discussing various issues with a sister butt fucking aficionado. But (no pun intended) I really at this point wanted—and needed—to get laid.